Do you like high heels?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 00:16

Do you like high heels?

Well of course I do! They make me feel powerful and sexy but at the same time they can be very painful over long periods.

These days I only wear 2-in heels at the most and not very long.

I was a cocktail waitress in my twenties and I had to wear 3-in heels for 8 hour shifts and that was not easy at all, but I did make very good tips!

How did you cope when someone you love, dealing with hyper-independence and trauma, felt they needed space to heal alone? Were you able to support them without overstepping, and did you eventually reconnect? How did that journey unfold?